My daughter’s clingyness to my wife, is well documented here.

the answer is = put the time in,

the result, is still clingyness, but not on the same level,

the hard part is, putting that time in, you think yeah yeah, play with your kids, but it has to be sustained, and it has to be over a sustained period of time ! else it will not work, i’m not saying that this will be the answer always, but it helps…..

 Lost in Translation, Bill Murray says ” when you have kids, your life as you know it, is over ! but then your kids grow, and learn to talk, and walk, and they just become these amazing people to be around. ” ( or something like that. )

 parenting is not easy, but it is rewarding, and an experience I would not have missed out on. The responsibility is overwhelming, but the love you feel for that person, is overwhelming too !!.


 This weekend may have been not the best, for fore – mentioned reasons.

But I had several revelations which astounded me .

1) My daughter of 17 months has a crush on a cartoon character !

2) cheese has approx, 125kcal per 30g !!  ( depending on the make, and type )

3) my memory for forgetting to not have gravy on my sunday lunch !!

  1)    Yes my daughter has a crush on Tom off of Fireman Sam. !!  HOW!!!

  2)    I was trying to be healthy, but we had a bit of double gloucster cheese left, so i ate it, only to see on the pack that, the calories were staggering, ( I am vegetarian, I need cheese, )  But the 125kcal per 30g shocked me ! Mental note, stick to extra light spreadable cheese.

  3) A theory going around is that Sinus headache is caused by an allegy….   i know someone who has migraines, from eating products withhigh levels of monosodium glutamate,  This is in gravy, which i have on a sunday, mainly, and surprisingly I do get headaches on a sunday , Coincidence Eh ???

Due to the headache, i had to stay in , but a plus point was that I got to see Lost In Translation, everytime I watch it, I learn something new !!